Is it possible?

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Postby ajv099 » Thu Jan 20, 2005 2:08 pm

GypsyDrug wrote:Maybe it's not so much about heads being in the clouds, but dealing with things rationally instead of arguing constantly to the point no one can stand being around them? And vagina's aren't that great, when blood clots start plopping out during your period it's a bit gross.


:x Okay... That'll teach me to have lunch while checking the forum... :evil:
Never have I been so insulted as the time someone called me..... normal.

I con't concider myself short....
I see it as boobs-eye view of the world. :twisted:
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Postby ~*Hellokittygurl*~ » Sat Jan 22, 2005 3:05 pm

ajv099 wrote:
GypsyDrug wrote:Maybe it's not so much about heads being in the clouds, but dealing with things rationally instead of arguing constantly to the point no one can stand being around them? And vagina's aren't that great, when blood clots start plopping out during your period it's a bit gross.


:x Okay... That'll teach me to have lunch while checking the forum... :evil:


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Postby winter » Tue Feb 08, 2005 10:39 pm

Keep in mind, I'm writing this while alcohol runnin' through my veins.

Love is what it is. Love is what we seek for because we think he need it in order to be happy. Love has made some angry, love has made some upset love has made some bipolar. (note, I once thought Bipolar was a polorbear that went both ways) Love has made some happy, love has made some content with their lives. The truth is, love is so damn easy to find that it's drive many insane and others happy. It starts with yourself and it ends with yourself. In order to find love, you must learn what love is. And love is trusting, caring, all that good mushy shit. Whatever. But first you must learn to love yourself before you can truely love anyone else. In fact, fuck loving someone else, you just need to learn to love yourself. That's my way, I love me so much. I'd do anything for me. I'm awesome!
That's what I'm talking about, in order to be happy you must find love within yourself. First step in doing this is to accept the fact that true love doesn't really exsist unless you want it too. If you don't believe in true love, then your never find it. If you believe in true love then you'll find it, within yourself. You'll realize that sooner or later you and every single body in this world will die. There's no way out of it, you will die. Everyone will die. You, me. Everyone! We all will fucking die. Your mother will die if she hasn't already, your dad will also, your sister will, yoru brother will, your aunt and uncle's will and most importantly, you will. Therefore, once you realize this simple fact, you will Either become suicidal or you will grasp the true meaning of love. IMO, if you truely love someone, you can let them go. Simple as that. My Xgirlfrien back when I was 16 years old died in a car Wreck, sure, I was only 16 years old but at the time I thought I loved her which I still do. The only reason why I can say that I Truely loved her is because I've learned to let her go. So go, love yourself. That's what I do, the reason why I've had so much trouble finding another girl is because I've had trouble accepting the fact that no matter what, sooner or later one or the other will die. I'm not willing to put myself into that chance again. As of now, I love me in a selfish kind of way, it's all about me. me. me. me. me. .. .. ... and Jesus.
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Postby heavymetal crickit » Tue Feb 08, 2005 11:02 pm

fuck right, I think Love is a essential part of life, if you never love anyone than your headin straight for hermitism. I myself have fallen love only a couple of times and am currently in love with my chill partner and best friend Anna (Annarchy, muthafuckaz). We both share the same love for each other but find it hard to be with each other because of this fucked up situation I have done to myself (falling behind on car payments and getting my car repoed, which sucks balls) but anyways me and her love each other and try to be together as much as possible but it is not possible right now but hopefully soon. Love is awesome though, love does cause rage and hate but it also brings people together and that is the part I love, I hate alot of things but I love alot of things too and that is what makes us all human. I LOVE YOU GUYZ, \M/
Taste the sting of your arrogance
Stuck in this screeching bitch called life
Drop the coins and send you to Charon.
I will have my vengeance
In this life or the next.
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And a back to stab
A head to kick in
And a throat to toslit.
I've got a job to do
Harsh and unrepentant.
Step back before you're the next to get served
With some Southern hospitality.


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Postby Yodi » Sun Oct 30, 2005 8:02 pm

Truffle wrote:3 years so far, my first love and i were together for 5 years. i learned to go for the old men b/c they can't run as fast. just kidding, 30 isn't old. true love is when you can pee while the other person is in the shower and give them a quick kiss before you flush and make the water change temperature.


That is the best description of real love that I have ever seen or heard. When you are with someone who loves you: you can be vulnerable and playful and irreverent and trusted all rolled together and know that they have the same freedom if you love them. Love is not bondage, unless of course it's mutual and previously agreed upon.
When you have found that life mate then you want to be trustworthy and you want all your time to be worthwhile. As to the original question: I don't believe that we are created with "one true love" because that implies that we are created in pairs and predestinated. I believe there is perfect love available to imperfect people and finally found it with my third husband. Yes, third time's the charm and we're almost on the 20yr mark. Because we have the same goals and mutual appreciation of each other. a sense of humor helps. so to the other question, yes - it's possible to keep love alive but it has to be a goal - not a by-product and you have to believe the other person is worth the trouble.
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