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bitter after a bad relationship?

PostPosted: Thu Jun 09, 2005 7:40 pm
by ~*Hellokittygurl*~
Its what i want to ask everybody, cause its my question of the month! :D
Out of all you ppl out there, what was the most bitter breakup eh?
I'm bored okay? entertain me!!

(anybody doesnt know or doesnt remember me cause i havent been on here in forever i just had to PM some ppl, who better write me back! naw jp. its trisha, yup, anybody who has yahoo could figure it out :P )

But yeah...back to the subject! lol

PostPosted: Thu Jun 09, 2005 11:16 pm
by -- Brando --
All breakups are bitter. I'd be worried if anyone in the world actually had a "happy breakup".

PostPosted: Thu Jun 09, 2005 11:32 pm
by winter
I actually slept through a relationship before. I was about 15 years old. this girl who was friends with my cousin spent the night over at my house we all was suppose to go camping together but I ended up leaving to spend the night at my friends house to smoke weed. Then I called my cousin and my cousin said that her friend was pissed at me for leaving because she liked me and how my cousin told her that I was going to ask her out and shit, so I got her friend to get on the phone and talked to her for a few minutes, asking her out lol and she was like "I'll tell you in the morning, when you get here." then I got home that morning very early and noticed that the girl was sleeping in my bed. I went into the other room where my cousin was sleeping and woke her up and asked her what she said, yes or not. if her friend would go out with me or not. My cousin then said, "She said yes" Keep in mind, I was a freaking dumbass kid who couldn't get any clues, or hints to save my life. I mean, she was freaking sleeping in my bed for Christ sakes. Anyway, I went ahead and went to sleep on the couch because I was still tired as hell. When I woke up, an hour later, the girl was gone. I asked my cousin where she went and my cousin told me that she said nevermind, she doesn't like me anymore. So there. I slept through the relationship.

PostPosted: Fri Jun 10, 2005 10:48 am
by Cwew
I tend to agree.

My worst break up was with my x-fiancee, and I won't go into details, but it was pretty jerry springer, horrible. Thank whoever we didn't get married though.

Ciao!
-- Brando -- wrote:All breakups are bitter. I'd be worried if anyone in the world actually had a "happy breakup".

PostPosted: Fri Jun 10, 2005 12:49 pm
by -- Brando --
My worst one was about 3 years ago. Again .. no details. I don't really even think about it anymore, let alone relationships in general and as a result I don't really have relationships anymore or at least since then. I don't see myself in one later in life whatsoever. I'm not unhappy about it either. Many folks think I'm nuts for being like this but they're just trying to validate their existence through relationships and/or sex or 'love' and all that jazz. If you can't experience the simple beautiful things in life, consciousness, or existence without the opiate of companionship then I believe that makes you the nut. That's my belief for now.

PostPosted: Fri Jun 10, 2005 3:07 pm
by Beezus
I was extremely bitter about my divorce. Now I just don't care.

not bitter

PostPosted: Sat Jun 11, 2005 2:11 am
by insanehippie
I'm not bitter. Stuff didn't work out, and I'd rather not be with someone who would lie to my face for petty bullshit anyway.

I enjoy my life about 98% of the time, except when people go on and on about their great relationships, then I'm reminded that I'm single.
I then hit the bottle. ;-)

I'm used to being single, and I just want a girl who can be a drinking buddy and have fun with. I'm very easy to please and unlike many men, I give women their space. I'll let you do whatever you want with guys, except cheat on me with them. If you cheat on me once, that's it. It is over. No second chances.

-Jesse

Re: not bitter

PostPosted: Sat Jun 11, 2005 3:33 am
by -- Brando --
insanehippie wrote:I'm not bitter. Stuff didn't work out, and I'd rather not be with someone who would lie to my face for petty bullshit anyway.

I enjoy my life about 98% of the time, except when people go on and on about their great relationships, then I'm reminded that I'm single.
I then hit the bottle. ;-)

I'm used to being single, and I just want a girl who can be a drinking buddy and have fun with. I'm very easy to please and unlike many men, I give women their space. I'll let you do whatever you want with guys, except cheat on me with them. If you cheat on me once, that's it. It is over. No second chances.

-Jesse


That's the way to go it man. Your worst hangover is still better than your best day in a relationship. Drink up !

PostPosted: Sat Jun 11, 2005 7:28 pm
by winter
I don't really even think about it anymore, let alone relationships in general and as a result I don't really have relationships anymore or at least since then. I don't see myself in one later in life whatsoever. I'm not unhappy about it either. Many folks think I'm nuts for being like this but they're just trying to validate their existence through relationships and/or sex or 'love' and all that jazz. If you can't experience the simple beautiful things in life, consciousness, or existence without the opiate of companionship then I believe that makes you the nut. That's my belief for now.



I must admit, I'm a little freaked out after reading this. It's almost as if you've stoled the words right out of my mouth. That is EXACTLY how I feel about stuff like that. It's not that I'm ugly, or that I'm gay, or wierd, or I like kids or anything sick and twisted like fucking sheep. I simply don't think about it much. There is so much that life has to offer and one of the sure things is Death. I feel the only way I'll ever fall in love with a girl again (I'm not trying to sound shallow) is if it's real. I'm talking about Exciting love. I'm talking about the kind of love that could be consider as being 'crazy' love. I'm talking about the kind of girl who is "Completely" out of my league. and of course, The girl would have to feel the same way about me. I'll wait for lightening to strike. If it ain't that, it ain't worth it.


they're just trying to validate their existence through relationships and/or sex or 'love'


Brando, You should be in my band. It's hard to find a band member who isn't stupid. Of course, you'll never be in my band because you live far far away and also I don't even know if you know 'how' to play any instruments, muchless good enough to be in the band. Or if you'd even want to make it in the glamours world of showbiz with me so fine! Be that way, I'm kicking you out before you get your hopes up! You're fire! Fuck you!

Okay, I lost my train of thought. hrm, I'm gonna go ahead and just click on the Submit now.

PostPosted: Sun Jun 12, 2005 1:08 pm
by -- Brando --
winter wrote:
I don't really even think about it anymore, let alone relationships in general and as a result I don't really have relationships anymore or at least since then. I don't see myself in one later in life whatsoever. I'm not unhappy about it either. Many folks think I'm nuts for being like this but they're just trying to validate their existence through relationships and/or sex or 'love' and all that jazz. If you can't experience the simple beautiful things in life, consciousness, or existence without the opiate of companionship then I believe that makes you the nut. That's my belief for now.



I must admit, I'm a little freaked out after reading this. It's almost as if you've stoled the words right out of my mouth. That is EXACTLY how I feel about stuff like that. It's not that I'm ugly, or that I'm gay, or wierd, or I like kids or anything sick and twisted like fucking sheep. I simply don't think about it much. There is so much that life has to offer and one of the sure things is Death. I feel the only way I'll ever fall in love with a girl again (I'm not trying to sound shallow) is if it's real. I'm talking about Exciting love. I'm talking about the kind of love that could be consider as being 'crazy' love. I'm talking about the kind of girl who is "Completely" out of my league. and of course, The girl would have to feel the same way about me. I'll wait for lightening to strike. If it ain't that, it ain't worth it.


they're just trying to validate their existence through relationships and/or sex or 'love'


Brando, You should be in my band. It's hard to find a band member who isn't stupid. Of course, you'll never be in my band because you live far far away and also I don't even know if you know 'how' to play any instruments, muchless good enough to be in the band. Or if you'd even want to make it in the glamours world of showbiz with me so fine! Be that way, I'm kicking you out before you get your hopes up! You're fire! Fuck you!

Okay, I lost my train of thought. hrm, I'm gonna go ahead and just click on the Submit now.


I'm glad someone gets me. And I get what ya mean about it having to be 'exciting' and 'crazy'. That's the only possible way I could fathom myself falling again. Love's a drug like any other .. you build up a tolerance to it. You need bigger and more intense doses following each comedown. So damn true.

I was also glad to have a very short-lived stint in your band. You know you've experienced true synergy of rock & roll when you don't even know the name of the band you just got kicked out of. 8)