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Is it possible?

PostPosted: Wed Dec 29, 2004 6:41 pm
by ~*Hellokittygurl*~
is it possible to actually find a one true love? Do you have to go through alot of people to find it? How do we even know its real? I see people out there everyday saying stuff like they've found their true love and a couple months later break up with them and fall in love with someone else. So the real question i'm asking is, is there actually one real person out there for another?

PostPosted: Thu Dec 30, 2004 11:08 am
by Brutuss
not impossible - but cannot be found in bangin' every dude you meet. if dood truely loves you, he will wait as long as you say

PostPosted: Thu Dec 30, 2004 2:43 pm
by jodax
(Romantic) Love is a myth constructed by society. There is no true love, no cinderella and no happy f'in after. Grow up to the big picture, there are no people out there that are supposed to complete you and make you happy. You have to complete yourself and make yourself happy. Relying on the false hope of true love is like relying on a hungry lion not eat your ass when you;re the only meat around. Maybe along the way you will find what society calls that ONE person, and maybe you'll find 30 of them, just don't rely on the fake notion of love to make anything last more than a one night stand.

+1 cynic.

PostPosted: Fri Dec 31, 2004 5:53 pm
by Beezus
someone's a little bitter aren't they?

PostPosted: Sat Jan 01, 2005 1:01 am
by jodax
GypsyDrug wrote:someone's a little bitter aren't they?


I'm a realist (except when hallucinating), bitterness has nothing to do with it.

PostPosted: Mon Jan 03, 2005 3:29 am
by ~*Hellokittygurl*~
Brutuss wrote:not impossible - but cannot be found in bangin' every dude you meet. if dood truely loves you, he will wait as long as you say


well..wasnt wut i was talking about...but thanx for the advice..i think.. :?

True Love

PostPosted: Mon Jan 03, 2005 4:22 am
by x0xblondex0x
I'm not sure about finding the ONE true love... You could be with someone you love more then life itself and still lose interest in being with him/her anymore... People change and grow apart and Love grows and fades...There will always be one person you will always love..someone you lost/cant be with but If you find someone that makes you happy then you should go for it... Always count the other person's feelings too Don't go to fast or it wont last long... Speaking from expierence....


Hey sis! :P

PostPosted: Mon Jan 03, 2005 10:43 am
by post climactic glow
jodax wrote:(Romantic) Love is a myth constructed by society. There is no true love, no cinderella and no happy f'in after. Grow up to the big picture, there are no people out there that are supposed to complete you and make you happy. You have to complete yourself and make yourself happy. Relying on the false hope of true love is like relying on a hungry lion not eat your ass when you;re the only meat around. Maybe along the way you will find what society calls that ONE person, and maybe you'll find 30 of them, just don't rely on the fake notion of love to make anything last more than a one night stand.

+1 cynic.


Love is an emotion. It is what you feel for your cat (rebekah). It is not a myth. Love has been ruined by people that don't understand it and they mangle what it truely is into something horrible and unattainable. Yes, I agree with the fact that things like getting married and having children is actually some sort of learned tradition and is encouraged to profit businesses and the like. The media and it's conspiracies are endless as long as we subscribe to them and follow like sheep. But love is real. And the thing about eating a lot of chocolate and getting the same feeling chemically may be true, but that doesn't mean a really hot, sweet, loving guy can't create the same feeling. The problem with love is all that surrounds it and what tries to diminish it at all times. Jealousy, torment, games, cheating, betrayal........the list goes on and on of terrible things that stem from love and love is like nicotine and alcohol, nicotine amplifies the effects of alcohol, so when in love everything is amplified, even the scariest emotion. But this is all normal. And I can see why someone would never want to ruled by this emotion. It's the easiest way to get hurt. It's extremely painful. Control is lost when one is in love. I get bipolar when I am in love. I'm either soooo happy or really really depressed. I hate it. But I pretty much love everything and every body. I'm a big hippie, tree hugging, 13 year old girl. ;) I wonder if I will ever learn?

PostPosted: Mon Jan 03, 2005 5:21 pm
by ~*Hellokittygurl*~
post climactic glow wrote:
jodax wrote:(Romantic) Love is a myth constructed by society. There is no true love, no cinderella and no happy f'in after. Grow up to the big picture, there are no people out there that are supposed to complete you and make you happy. You have to complete yourself and make yourself happy. Relying on the false hope of true love is like relying on a hungry lion not eat your ass when you;re the only meat around. Maybe along the way you will find what society calls that ONE person, and maybe you'll find 30 of them, just don't rely on the fake notion of love to make anything last more than a one night stand.

+1 cynic.


Love is an emotion. It is what you feel for your cat (rebekah). It is not a myth. Love has been ruined by people that don't understand it and they mangle what it truely is into something horrible and unattainable. Yes, I agree with the fact that things like getting married and having children is actually some sort of learned tradition and is encouraged to profit businesses and the like. The media and it's conspiracies are endless as long as we subscribe to them and follow like sheep. But love is real. And the thing about eating a lot of chocolate and getting the same feeling chemically may be true, but that doesn't mean a really hot, sweet, loving guy can't create the same feeling. The problem with love is all that surrounds it and what tries to diminish it at all times. Jealousy, torment, games, cheating, betrayal........the list goes on and on of terrible things that stem from love and love is like nicotine and alcohol, nicotine amplifies the effects of alcohol, so when in love everything is amplified, even the scariest emotion. But this is all normal. And I can see why someone would never want to ruled by this emotion. It's the easiest way to get hurt. It's extremely painful. Control is lost when one is in love. I get bipolar when I am in love. I'm either soooo happy or really really depressed. I hate it. But I pretty much love everything and every body. I'm a big hippie, tree hugging, 13 year old girl. ;) I wonder if I will ever learn?


Thank you, thats like the second honest answer i've gotten so far, and i truly appreciate it

bipolar u say....why does this sound strangly fimiliar.. :?

PostPosted: Tue Jan 04, 2005 10:38 am
by post climactic glow
Evil_yet_Kind_87 wrote:
post climactic glow wrote:
jodax wrote:(Romantic) Love is a myth constructed by society. There is no true love, no cinderella and no happy f'in after. Grow up to the big picture, there are no people out there that are supposed to complete you and make you happy. You have to complete yourself and make yourself happy. Relying on the false hope of true love is like relying on a hungry lion not eat your ass when you;re the only meat around. Maybe along the way you will find what society calls that ONE person, and maybe you'll find 30 of them, just don't rely on the fake notion of love to make anything last more than a one night stand.

+1 cynic.


Love is an emotion. It is what you feel for your cat (rebekah). It is not a myth. Love has been ruined by people that don't understand it and they mangle what it truely is into something horrible and unattainable. Yes, I agree with the fact that things like getting married and having children is actually some sort of learned tradition and is encouraged to profit businesses and the like. The media and it's conspiracies are endless as long as we subscribe to them and follow like sheep. But love is real. And the thing about eating a lot of chocolate and getting the same feeling chemically may be true, but that doesn't mean a really hot, sweet, loving guy can't create the same feeling. The problem with love is all that surrounds it and what tries to diminish it at all times. Jealousy, torment, games, cheating, betrayal........the list goes on and on of terrible things that stem from love and love is like nicotine and alcohol, nicotine amplifies the effects of alcohol, so when in love everything is amplified, even the scariest emotion. But this is all normal. And I can see why someone would never want to ruled by this emotion. It's the easiest way to get hurt. It's extremely painful. Control is lost when one is in love. I get bipolar when I am in love. I'm either soooo happy or really really depressed. I hate it. But I pretty much love everything and every body. I'm a big hippie, tree hugging, 13 year old girl. ;) I wonder if I will ever learn?


Thank you, thats like the second honest answer i've gotten so far, and i truly appreciate it

bipolar u say....why does this sound strangly fimiliar.. :?


You're welcome.