by Ronquistador » Mon Aug 21, 2006 9:15 am
winter, i know we joke and pick fun at each others expense, and believe you me, i could make jokes about this for like,,,the next month - but the fact is this is not a joking matter, and you are in honest need of help... snd ive spent time working in law offices, have mingled and associated with lawyers - and have friends who STUDY law...as well as a few cops close to the family....
BY NO MEANS AM I ANY SORT OF CITABLE AUTHORITY, BUT I KNOW WHAT I AM SPEAKING OF....
i hope you read this in time to be valuable to you...
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molestation is constituted when one individual is sexually engaged or approached (does not have to be intercourse) by another without the recipient being "capable" of understanding whats going on. IE - "the innocence of a child" violated via a lewd, inappropriate act...
HOWEVER - there are grounds to this... factors you will be happy to hear my friend...
FIRST OFF - the recipient of said "molestation" MUST BE UNDER 13 YEARS OF AGE - if he/she is older it becomes a potential rape charge
SECONDLY - the alleged "perp" must be OLDER than 13 years of age. If BOTH parties were UNDER 13 - it is NOT molestation and in fact is NOT a crime at all....( i mean...cmon...who DIDNT play "doctor" with the girl/boy next door, a cousin, brother, sister - WHATEVER..... it is nine times out of ten NOT sexually driven, rather fueled by youthful curiosity and exploration - odds are the first time you saw a pussy/dick you didnt associate any sexual conotation to it)
of course its different if youre like 12 and are clit-poppen yer 2 year old sister...but there is an OBVIOUS diversity in that putrid picture I just painted and a situation such as your own
woulda been bad if you were 14 and her 12...youd be fucked...
strangely...from 14-17 range - there is no law "governing" any sort of molestation and rape in those regards BASED ON AGE ALONE...not to say a teen cant be charged with rape...not so...altho the law frowns on minors having sex...
and we ALL know how the law is against people 18 or older bangin someone under the age of 18... thats statitory rape... (unless the younger party was under 13 - in which case it would be molestation, carnal knowledge of a minor, aggrivated sexual battery etc etc - whatever law they decide throw at you)
being that you were BOTH under 13 years of age "technically" you coulda "touched" her and, despite being vile and questionable at best, not gotten in any trouble (unless mommy and daddy had a DAMN good lawyer and "ammo" to tarnish your 'brief' history at that age)...
she has no case because there was no law broken... and i WOULD, pending you are being honest, sue that bitch for slander and deformation of character....
to take this in stride LOOKS guilty (even in abscense of a real crime)... fight back...do whatever it takes... sitting back and simply saying "shes lieing" doesnt boad well for you...
whether or not a law was broken...it doesnt matter - you still have people harassing you - and she is apparently singing to the town that you defiled her "youth" - telling people who have no need to know anything whatsoever - and you WILL win the case...given the ideal that what you tell here is true
you need to think back... do not jump to any quick responses, and i hate to say it... consult a lawyer of your own - if you cant afford one - call the court clerk or the majistrate and ask for your areas free legal council service hotline (not the BEST route - but it IS free)...arrange a meeting, (may be over the phone ENTIRELY) and you MUST tell this person EVERY LITTLE FUCKING DETAIL down to what you had for dinner that night and whether or not you had seconds.... even the most minute detail that may mean nothing or seem irrelivant to you could turn this whole motherfucker upside down if it DOES go to court and your council gets sideswiped by a missing link you forgot to mention....
this is a lawyer...but pending what they suggest, you may wish to seek HIRED council and discuss with them... IF you hire a lawyer.. make SURE the client council confidentiality clause is effective ...dont get mad at me for saying this... if you DID do something.... tell that motherfucker........ these people are paid to lie for all essential purposes, they get murderers, rapists, drugees, etc off the hook EVERY DAY... youre not going to tell them something that will shock them...i assure you...THEY NEED TO KNOW EVERYTHING
BUT - it will affect how they present a case that is if it goes to trial...
all around, it seems like a very easy deal to beat her alligations into falacy given the surrounding cirumstances...it being an act of revenge rather than truth... (and given a small 2 year age gap...its nearly fucken laughable... be different if you were like...7-8-9-10 years older....but your not)
and once that has been settled or thrown out (or laughed at by a judge) - proceed to file your slander and deformation of character case...
people sue and win all sorts of shit like that even if they WERE guilty.... that "Amber's Law" shit has bounderies ya know...not to mention you HAVE BEEN CONVICTED OF NOTHING... OUR NATION STIPULATES THAT YOU ARE INNOCENT UNTIL PROVEN GUILTY IN A COURT OF LAW... AND UNTIL YOU HAVE THAT DENT IN YOUR CRIMINAL RECORD...THERE IS NO FUCKING REASON FOR ANYONE EXCEPT THE PARTIES INVOLVED TO KNOW
let her cry some freedom of speech shit... that doesnt allow her to encroach on others freedoms of life liberty and the pursuit of happiness....
same difference that you cant scream fire in a movie theater when there is no fire... its a violation of OTHER peoples rights...
so essentially the only way she COULD have pheasably gotten away with flapping her yap to the town is if she took you to court (this would be CRIMINAL court - not civil) and you were found guilty...
sadly... given todays society and the awareness of children to the "private endevours" of adults and the workings of the world in respectiveness to this situation.. its very commonplace for an older child, or young teen (yound adult even) to cry out in this fashion as a means of revenge....
bottom line is this dude... shes throwing BOMBS at you (this aint nothing to try and let "pass by" cause it WILL NOT)... these bombs are not being thrown in just cause....
its time to make these bombs blow the fuck up in her face
"Hooray for me and to hell with you!"
-Mr Nunally... RIP